To the Men in My DMsPlease excuse the group message. Also, #NotAllMen! Just those of you who’ve tried to weasel your way into a sexual conversation.Sep 21, 2018Sep 21, 2018
The Path to Redemption for People Who’ve Done Bad ShitFor those of you who have been exposed as part of #MeToo, there seems to be some confusion about when, precisely, you’re allowed to come…Aug 30, 20181Aug 30, 20181
How #MeToo Accusers Cope After Going Public: “My Hatred Has Deepened”The other night I was on a Tinder date at a bar in Los Angeles. I liked the guy — and he, I think, liked me — but there was something I…May 18, 2018May 18, 2018
An Army at Her BackLast December, when NBC’s Cynthia McFadden interviewed me and two other women about our experiences accusing actor Dustin Hoffman of sexual…Mar 29, 2018Mar 29, 2018
I publicly accused Dustin Hoffman of harassment.A friend called me recently, anxious. Like many men, he was scared he might get caught in the net of sexual harassment accusations. “Anyone…Jan 14, 2018Jan 14, 2018
Dustin Hoffman Sexually Harassed Me When I Was 17This is a story I’ve told so often I’m sometimes surprised when someone I know hasn’t heard it. It begins, “Dustin Hoffman sexually…Nov 6, 20174Nov 6, 20174
Published inHuman PartsLying Down With Older MenHe scared me, but only emotionallyMar 5, 2017112Mar 5, 2017112
Published inHuman PartsThe Joy of Being an Untethered WomanOn sex, solitude, and female friendshipFeb 19, 201740Feb 19, 201740
You don’t get to have all the babiesThe original title of this was Let’s Celebrate Abortion. Which I know I’m not supposed to say. So let me amend: Let’s celebrate the easy…Jan 22, 20178Jan 22, 20178